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Relationships are mirror images of your own life. They’re more often a reflection of how you feel and treat yourself, as well as how you react and respond to different situations and people that are around you. All relationships whether they’re on an emotional, physical, mental, or spiritual level are all part of the learning process and enlightenment of the soul. No matter what category a relationship falls into, it acts as a teaching tool for you to understand the lessons that your soul needs to learn. It can help you to understand, change, or enhance your individual qualities.

Every relationship is an opportunity for soul growth. Different types of relationships have an uncanny way of showing you what you need to work on in your life. At times, they reveal your vulnerabilities and insecurities, or your need for attention, approval, and acceptance. Equally, they can identify when you may be stuck in a rut, or where you need love, peace, healing, or joy in your life.

Sometimes, when the lesson is not fully learned, you find yourself in a repeating pattern, going from one similar relationship to another. If you find yourself in this pattern, ask yourself “What I am not learning from this relationship?” and once you figure that out, you’ll be able to move on. Here’s a true story as an example of this:

Recently an acquaintance of mine told me about a guy she was dating on and off for over five years. He broke up the relationship for another woman, leaving her devastated. Sure enough he came back into her life, and did the same thing again after dating her for another 3 months. She called me up to tell me what had happened, and asked me: “John what’s wrong with him!?” Of course, I had to reply right back and say: “ What are you not getting?” This is a theme that plays out all the time with her and not just with this guy. It’s been a familiar story over the years. I tried to make her understand that until she accepts that she’s a good person, deserves more, and is worthy of a fulfilling relationship – the same theme will keep playing out in her life. But first she has to work on herself and understand why she is attracting these unfulfilling relationships. I really believe that certain people come into your life for a reason. Some stay, some go, some just keep coming back until you learn the lesson that you are meant to understand.

If you look back at all your relationships, whatever the situation, you’ll begin to see a pattern. The learning process is all part of guiding you in the direction of where you’re supposed to be. If enough people constantly encourage you to change something in your life, or take up a new hobby, or change something about the way you approach life, perhaps there’s a message there. Equally, negative relationships can be the catalyst for a major positive shift in your life.

Some relationships are simply there for you to experience love, or it could be showing you what you don’t want in your next relationship. So when it’s time to develop a relationship, you’ll be more aware and have the ability to manifest the type of relationship you want – one that serves your highest purpose. Whatever the case, when you learn to open your heart and view a relationship through the eyes of your soul, you’ll discover an even better relationship that’s waiting for you – the relationship of your soul-self.

Everyone has had these types of relationships, you just need to take the time and look into your past. Please remember not all relationships have to be one-on-one with just one individual. They can be with a group, an organization, a pet, or even an incident or situation.

As always, I encourage you to write down in your journal the relationships you’ve had in the past, and see if they’ve guided you in the direction of where you are now, or did they lead you away from your purpose?

Then start another page and write down all the relationships that are happening in your life right now. I’m not suggesting that you analyze every single relationship, but just those that are causing you to stop and question yourself.

Ask yourself:

What am I learning from this relationship?

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What qualities am I developing?

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Is this relationship for my highest good?

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How can I make this relationship better?

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Are we learning from each other?

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Is there an even exchange of energy in both

giving and receiving?

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What have I learned or are still learning about myself through this relationship?

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Are the people in my life empowering and encouraging me to be all that I can be?

Within every relationship, there’s an encoded lesson that you’ve hopefully learned or in some cases still need to learn.

Live a Soul-Filled Life!